Attachment at Early Childhood

Before talking about attachment-focused parenting, it is necessary to learn about the main parenting types and how they arise, and then to learn about attachment types and their history, to establish a solid foundation without introduction to the subject. History of Parenting StylesParenting styles, which are defined as parents' attitudes, beliefs, behaviors and expectations regarding child-rearing, are the basic dynamics that explain the socialization processes of children in every culture. For a child, his mother and father represent the world.

The child thinks that everyone in the world will behave in the same way as his mother and father. that is, the child's perception of the world and himself changes according to the behavior of his parents towards him. With the parent's behavior towards the child, the child's self-perception and self-esteem begin to form.

The child may feel valued or worthless because of the parent's behavior. How do parents express the values ​​they give to their children. What is the equivalent of material or moral value.

Do we show our children that we value them by buying gifts or doing whatever they want. Or do we make them feel valuable by touching them, and kissing them. Or do we show that it is valuable by spending time with the child.