Barefoot Doctor's Deep Confidence Training

Barefoot Doctor's in-depth Deep Confidence training is THE failsafe way to overcome long-held, deeply ingrained feelings of not being good enough, so you can take rather than avoid exciting opportunitiessay "yes" when you mean yes and "no" when you mean nomove forward or change direction in your careerhave the courage to start or leave a relationshipbe the real you (not the version you think others want you to be)live the life you want rather than the one you've settled forfind more freedom, fun and fulfillment. Confidence (from Latin con, meaning with and fidere, to hold faith) has the more or less literal meaning 'believe in yourself'- but what is this ‘self' people have to believe in for life to perform its best for them. If it's that hodgepodge construct of half-cooked notions, lies complexes and pretense Freud called the ego defenses it's no wonder people fundamentally lack confidence -because all they'd be believing in would be a lie.

Get to know your true self Paradoxically by knowing your true self, that which lies behind all the noise of personality believing in it becomes a moot point anyway, because you are it and can distinctly feel yourself so, hence belief is redundant. In all my years of working intensively and extensively with hugely popular, successful, self-assured DJs, musicians, singers, actors, models, big-up business buccaneers, designers, film-directors and all sorts - even a reformed heavyweight gangster - I've not met a single person who doesn't suffer from some deficit in self-esteem, self-worth or self-entitlement But confidence is much misunderstood - it's not loud or brash, it's not about front and the ability to walk into a room and dominate any conversation, it doesn't transform your life in three minutes nor get you walking about all overly-assertive like you've just been on a weekend assertiveness training. The confidence I refer to is a quieter quality - more subtle, more discreet, not egocentric and in fact to the contrary, quite altruistic in the sense of focusing on being of service to our fellows rather than merely serving our own urges for superficial gratification.

Confidence is about holding trust with life through thick and thin, and with your own capacity to funnel and process life optimally for the duration With confidence informing you you're able to do the Taoist dance of flowing like water - never piling up or stagnating, always flowing towards your intended outcome no matter what obstacle rears its head in your path - and you're able to enjoy the ride rather than waste it resisting and fighting the flow. To be confident requires self-esteem, self-worth and self-entitlement. These attributes are commonly in deficit due to us comparing ourselves to others and competing to qualify for humanity, rather than retaining true perspective.

With true perspective it's patently clear you're a flower of nature, an expression of Tao in human form and if you're good enough for the Tao to squeeze itself into your shape you qualify. In short if you're here reading this you qualify. Barefoot Doctor's Deep Confidence training helps you make the subtle yet radical shift of inner view to profoundly reset your relationship with the world around you The training is vastly different from other available self-confidence trainings which focus on front without the radical reset - so whilst they may be helpful to a certain extent it's unlikely you'll gain any lasting value.